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July 25, 2005
moving slowly
Things are moving slowly around here. Even though I have thrown out and donated like a mad woman, the amount of crap that you can fit into a small apartment is astounding. And the knitting is moving so slowly that it might even be unknitting itself.

There should be a photo of Tonton Guy's monster sock here, but I can't even find the darned thing. When I do, I'm going to rip it out. I'm just not happy with the toe and the way the short rows look and I'm afraid it's not the right size either. Plus, I originally cast on I-don't-remember-how-many-stitches and then was afraid it was too big, but being a lazy girl, I just decreased out a couple stitches after the toe instead of starting over (never mind that the toe is the fun part and starting over would have been the right choice) so I ended up with an oversized toe on a sock that might be too small.

I have also thrown out an old version of Anouk that used crappy yarn for part of the back since I ran out of the right yarn and I'm seriously considering throwing out a sweater I made a long time ago and don't really like... or maybe even two sweaters. Have you or would you ever throw out anything you knit? I'd like to know, but please, as much as I admire those of you who recycle yarn and sweaters, it just ain't gonna happen so don't even bother suggesting it. The sweater in question is made with a fuzzy, slubby yarn that hasn't worn very well. There would be absolutely no point in taking the darned thing apart when I have gobs of yarn to move already.
Posted by kate at July 25, 2005 03:16 AM
Comments
Having moved a lot in my 42 years I say if you don't love it, have not used it in a while or just kinda like it: THROW IT AWAY or donate.
Posted by: Debbie at July 31, 2005 01:08 PM
All of my older sweaters were very 90s style and when I realized that I was never, ever, ever going to wear them again, I got rid of them. The sweaters that were nice, were worn out. Now, I don't keep anything I don't like. Even if it's new. I just donate it to charity because there is no point in my keeping things I won't wear.
Posted by: Liz at July 29, 2005 01:41 PM
I took the buttons (to keep them) off of an aran-style cardigan I tried to copy from a J. Crew catalog years ago, before dropping it at the thrift store. It probably got tossed out. I would love to have it back so I could felt it.
Another sweater I didn't like, I threw into the washer to shrink it and then took the buttons (possibly the same ones as the previous throw away sweater) off. I cut the felted results into pieces that my 5 year old could practice sewing buttons onto, and another piece became a french press cozy to keep my coffee warm on cool mornings when camping.
Oh, and I just remembered. A few months ago I threw away a perfectly wonderful, fitted just right to my friend's foot, out of yarn suited to her exactly, finished pair of socks....ACCIDENTALLY. Yes, really. They were in a paper bag in my car, and I just threw it all in a dumpster without looking inside. The socks were so lightweight that I just thought the bag was empty. Yup, those socks are in a landfill somewhere. It makes me nauseous everytime I think about it. Hopefully some rodent has made a home in them.
Posted by: Siri at July 28, 2005 08:25 AM
I've thrown stuff out. I didn't REALLY want to but I new I should.
Posted by: Lily at July 27, 2005 08:44 PM
I have totally chucked out knitting, if it was crappy.
That bracelet is so cool! Maybe it's stretched out but I maintain it's cooler than anything I've made. ;-)
Posted by: Jenny at July 27, 2005 12:46 PM
I have thrown...and it is liberating not to be held hostage by something you absolutely hate.
Posted by: Pubah at July 27, 2005 12:22 PM
I'm with most of the other commenters -- if it's horrible yarn, throw it out and enjoy the freedom! Why not use the storage space for something you really love? If it's recyclable, donate it to someone who can use it.
Maybe you could try felting the things you don't like, and completely transform them, say into flowers that can be sewn onto a felted bag, or some other kind of decoration (or potholders). Of course, this doesn't solve the packing problem....
Posted by: Jeanne at July 27, 2005 07:09 AM
I have even donated unfinished knitting projects hoping that someone will finish them---or at least use the yarn! :-)
Posted by: Oz at July 26, 2005 10:58 PM
In the case of crappy yarn, pitch. Far far away. Get help if necessary. In the case of good yarn.... give it to someone that would frog it and would appreciate having the yarn. I would. You can send me any frogworthy knits of nice yarn! :)
Posted by: Laura Lee at July 26, 2005 04:09 PM
I don't think I'd ever actually throw something out, although I would GIVE it away...let them throw it out, I couldn't bear to!
Posted by: Faith at July 25, 2005 09:25 PM
Kiss it goodbye! buh-BYE! It's nice to start fresh instead of carrying around the stuff you've Moved Beyond. I feel a twinge over the Anouk but you know best. xox Kay
Posted by: Kay at July 25, 2005 05:46 PM
I have to say that i have no regrets in throwing out things i have knit. (well, i donate them to the needy). I have so far donated the very first sweater i knit, (it was HIDEOUS), the second sweater i knit, (just wasn't pleased with the fit) and the first sweater I knit for my husband ( didn't like the way it turned out) Rather than live with the guilt and reminder of failure, I prefer to think that someone out there is warm and cozy from something i knit. Also, then there is more room in my closet for things i do love that i have knit.
Posted by: Erin at July 25, 2005 05:23 PM
I've tossed, but only recently, and it took over 20 years to finally concede. It felt good!!
Posted by: Vicki at July 25, 2005 04:24 PM
THat stinks.. I have frogged, but not tossed. I say do it if its just going to stay in storage. What a fun bracelet though...
Posted by: Dani at July 25, 2005 04:07 PM
That's the problem with sentimentality -- we end up with gobs of "stuff" that we keep "just because". If you're not a recycler of yarn -- could you donate the items to knitters who would recycle the yarn? If it's a matter of crappy yarn, just pitch it. Purge! Purge! Purge!
Posted by: Gina at July 25, 2005 02:34 PM
I have thrown away handknits, and while it's painful (some more than others!), I figure it's better to make the space in the closet for new knits than to hang on to old ones. If it makes it easier, you can always donate to charity--it still gets it out of the house, but there's a chance somebody will appreciate it. You never know!
Posted by: --Deb at July 25, 2005 02:20 PM
Just last week I threw out something I knit. It was a huge unfinished mohair wrap knit in fisherman's rib. The color was too bright, the yarn was not beautiful, and it had already sat around my house for a year. I tried not to look as I put it into the kitchen trash..
Posted by: Diana at July 25, 2005 02:14 PM
Unlike everyone else - I think I am having a heart attack about throwing something hand-knit away. That is just so so sad.
Can you - give it away instead - like, maybe to a homeless shelter or something? I know, that takes extra time, so you should probably just ignore that suggestion, and get over to that trash can immediately, close your eyes, toss it, and never think about it again.
But eeeeek!
Posted by: Anne-Caroline at July 25, 2005 01:41 PM
Toss it! You have my permission! Its not like it can compost and turn into something magical; you are not going to love it any more when you open the box when you are unpacking. Be brave! Get rid of all you can!
Posted by: suzanne at July 25, 2005 01:02 PM
I haven't thrown anything away, but lord knows I have one thing I should (made mostly because it was the simplest top ever and I thought it would be a nice first top to knit, but I have far too much boobage to wear such a thing). I just have to get up the courage to do so.
Posted by: kim at July 25, 2005 12:21 PM
Chuck it. Cathartic. Shedding of old life, regaining new life. It's liberating :)
Posted by: Alison at July 25, 2005 12:08 PM
1er commentaire! J'ai donné tous les pulls que j'ai tricotés (ou jetés s'ils étaient vraiment ratés) sauf une dizaine que je garde encore. Et oui, j'ai déménagé plusieurs fois!
Posted by: Mireille at July 25, 2005 09:13 AM
If it's offensive enough to want to throw it away, ditch it. I'm a relatively new knitter so I haven't actually thrown anything away that I've knit, but I'm considering it.
Posted by: molly at July 25, 2005 07:30 AM
I give everything away, which lets me keep the deluded notion that it's not going to waste, and that someone else will want it for something.
Posted by: Nadia at July 25, 2005 07:12 AM
I recently moved back to the States from the UK, and yes, I threw out knitting--two pairs of fuzzyfeet that I wore for only one winter, but constantly.
I had such problems getting back, as the luggage allowances were greater going out than heading back to the states, so I ended up throwing out a whole pile of clothes at the hotel the night before I left, too!
Posted by: Nina at July 25, 2005 05:27 AM
I've only been knitting seriously for about a year, so Me Now probably couldn't...but...I dabbled in ceramics for a few years. At first, I couldn't throw out anything, no matter how space-sucking or crappy. That changed, though, after a while, as I'm sure it will with knitting. If you don't love it, you know you'll never use it or recycle it: chuck it guilt-free. It's liberating!
PS--My first comment on your blog, wow, how exciting..I've read it for a while though, and am fan of your patterns...just so you know, in case you needed an ego-boost...
Posted by: Jinxie at July 25, 2005 03:23 AM
i say chuck it. it sounds like you'd never wear if you did keep it, and since recycling isn't an option -- what other choice do you have?
we've been kicking around the idea of moving too and i'm going thru a bit of what you describe. it's good to be forced to clean up and get tidy -- there's no reason to tote around all the crap we stow away for decades!
Posted by: jody at July 25, 2005 03:10 AM
I confess, I have thrown out things that I have knit. I always feel a bit ashamed when I do this, since I know the yarn could be recycled. But if I am throwing it out, it is probably because the yarn was gross. Sometimes you need to just chuck it and live life as if the offending piece never existed.
Posted by: Nicole at July 25, 2005 01:57 AM



