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March 21, 2006

forgetful

I forgot to tell you all about something fantastic I did last week: I walked to the metro and felt very light and strange. I kept feeling like I had forgotten something. I took the metro and got off at my stop convinced I had left something behind. Then I walked down the street very quickly. I went into a café and sat down and knitted and chatted with these ladies. Then, I went home. Do you see what was missing the whole time? Tadpole. She stayed home with her dad. It was awesome. I love my daughter more than I ever thought possible but it was really great to have a couple hours without her. And her hem has now grown a good chunk of sweater. It had to be red.

Posted by kate at March 21, 2006 09:29 AM

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Hey! Ain't it great?
(see, I am alive)

Posted by: julia fc at March 25, 2006 11:08 PM

You need time for you too, solo time. But I bet you missed her!

Very pretty design, worthy of a Kate G. offspring. ;-)

Posted by: Jenny at March 25, 2006 04:33 AM

It;s so nice to have some "me" time occassionally. I know how you feel, since my 4 year old daughter does not like to be away from me for more than about 2 hours, then asks her dad to ring me and tell me to come back because she misses me. He never does call me but when he tells me it still pulls my heartstrings. Kids always make you feel like a better person you know. By the way, I absolutely love your sweater. Cannot wait to see Tadpole modelling it.

Posted by: Sue at March 24, 2006 05:28 PM

I do know exactly how you feel...exactly...

Posted by: Sarah at March 24, 2006 06:21 AM

I can SO relate! My children are a delight to me, but I feel so like a better and more patient mother if I can get a few hours away to recharge my batteries now and then.

Posted by: Wendi at March 23, 2006 09:41 AM

I still remember my first evening out without my daughter (who is now 21). We went to a concert and in the intermission I found I was swaying back and forth--not to the music, but because with a colicky baby you quickly learn that standing still is not an option.

What I found really depressing was the people who would ooh and ahh over the babe and say that it was the best time and what a pity it was that they grow up. Wrong! It gets better and better.

Posted by: Mama Lu at March 22, 2006 10:45 AM

I bet a change in routine was very inspirational! I'm glad you got some me time. I'm looking forward to a weekend away (just 45 minutes away, but it makes all the difference!) and a chance to think "outside the box," myself.

And the sweater looks beautiful! Reds, all reds, are my favorite colors - I just look at them and sigh.

Posted by: Ginga at March 22, 2006 10:36 AM

My mum once left me in my pram (it was safe to do so in 1970!!) sitting just inside the door of our local Marks & Spencer whilst she did her shopping there - but forgot that she had me and was half way home before she remembered that something was missing i.e. ME!!! Luckily I had slept through the whole experience! I am glad you had left tadpole in capable hands!!

Free - time takes on new meaning when you have children!

Posted by: Diane at March 22, 2006 10:25 AM

Welcome to motherhood. The sweetness of freedom made that much better by the sweetness of your child. :)

Posted by: Sarah at March 22, 2006 08:19 AM

The title of your entry is deceiving, I thought that you actually FORGET tadpole! Your first outing alone, how very exciting!

You're making great progress on the sweater and I love that you said it HAD to be red, but of course!

Posted by: Aimee at March 22, 2006 08:03 AM

Congratulations on your first trip out without your baby! It was so weird (and difficult) for me, especially when I thought for a second that I'd left him in the car, no, wait, he's at home...

Posted by: Brynne at March 21, 2006 11:55 PM

I still like getting out occasionally, with four of them (the youngest is 8 months). I have friends who chide me for knitting teensy sweaters which are going to be outgrown -- I laugh. Nothing, nothing is as sweet as a teeny baby sweater. That red is gorgeous!

Posted by: Stefaneener at March 21, 2006 09:59 PM

Wonderful!
And the sweater looks great too.

Posted by: Christabel at March 21, 2006 06:59 PM

Oh good for you sister! Promise to do that a LOT. It saves your sanity. Really. I love the red. Beautiful.

Posted by: Scout at March 21, 2006 06:37 PM

You're smart to get out by yourself every once in a while. As much as you love and adore the Tadpole, you are still YOU and need a little fresh air and space. And then coming home and smelling her head was probably even better than if you'd been smelling it the whole time. :)

Posted by: Karma at March 21, 2006 03:52 PM

Good for you...Even as a mother of a 12 and 14 year old I still love my away time.

Posted by: Darci at March 21, 2006 03:18 PM

Hooray! Some time for yourself. Feels good eh?

The sweater looks lovely.

Posted by: Steph at March 21, 2006 01:18 PM

I can't imagine how strange and wonderful it felt to have a smidgen of "self" time. I think every new mother feels that way - they love their child but do welcome the notion of sleep and/or socializing with other adults.

Posted by: Gina at March 21, 2006 12:06 PM

I, too, know exactly how you felt/feel! You're probably sick of hearing this, but it DOES get better. I swear to you, in just a year, life will be drastically different than it is today (all for the best)!

Posted by: Rae at March 21, 2006 11:58 AM

hurray! first day out alone! I know exactly how you must have felt.

Posted by: Julia at March 21, 2006 11:46 AM

 
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